Today we're going to go over the signs she is cheating on you. Game is officially in session.

Before I get started, I want you to understand a critical truth about women: Women will leave mentally long before they leave physically. Her mind has already been gone for quite some time. Then her body is going to follow. When a woman cheats on you, she’s already been cheating on you in her head.

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She’s already fantasizing about another guy. She starts positioning herself in places where other men can approach her. She starts giving her number out. She starts entertaining men who are messaging her on Instagram.

This is exactly how it happens. Because if a woman is completely in love with you—if you are the only man she desires—she is not going to cross your boundaries. She’s not going to entertain men on social media. She’s not even going to respond to their messages. She’ll tell guys, "Sorry, I have a boyfriend."

That's how a woman acts when you are the only man she's thinking about. But when a woman has mentally checked out, she starts leaving disaster trails everywhere.

If you don't know what to look for when you're vetting a woman early on, you need to read my full guide: 6 Dating Red Flags Men Must Spot Fast.

But if you are already deep in a relationship, here are the 7 undeniable signs she is cheating on you, or about to walk out the door.

1. The Sex Stops (And Becomes a Bargaining Tool)

One of the first signs your woman is cheating on you—or about to leave you—is when the sex stops.

Suddenly, she’s reluctant to give it up unless you buy her an expensive purse, or wash the dishes, or take out the trash. She starts using sex as a bargaining tool. She starts giving you ultimatums: do this, or she's not going to give it up.

This means she no longer has a natural desire for you. To her, you are absolutely repulsive.

When a woman is cheating on you with another man, she can only serve one master at a time. Women cannot serve two sexual masters. Because the new guy is fulfilling her sexual needs, sleeping with you makes her feel like she’s cheating on him. That’s why she is so reluctant to sleep with you.

The excuses start flying, fellas:
"Oh, I have a headache."
"It's that time of the month."
"I had a long day at work."
"Babe, it's a full moon."
"Babe, there's an eclipse tomorrow."

Bullshit excuses. When a woman is all about you, she desires you, and she will sleep with you. And the absolute last thing you should be doing is begging for it.

Once you start negotiating with your woman for sex, it’s game over. You're making it 10 times worse. Now she has the power and you're her little puppy dog on a leash. You become even more repulsive in her eyes.

I know this for a fact. Years ago, I started sleeping with a toxic girl. Months later, her ex reached out to me. He told me that the exact day after I slept with her, he tried having sex with her, and she told him no. She just wouldn't give it up to him, even though they were still dating. She could not serve two masters.

You want a woman who can’t wait to rip your clothes off the second you walk through the door. If you have to push harder and harder just to sleep with her, you already know she’s probably getting a hot beef injection from someone else.

If she's pulling away, you need to know how to handle it. Read the full breakdown here: What to Do When She Pulls Back (Keep Power & Attraction).

2. She Suddenly Starts Working Out More

This is actually one of the biggest signs of infidelity.

When a woman knows the ship is sinking between you two, she wants to make sure she looks good for the next guy. Or, that new guy she’s already sleeping with is motivating her to always look her best.

If your woman randomly changes her appearance—getting her hair cut differently, paying attention to finer details she never cared about before, or busting out the yoga DVDs—you can safely assume she met another guy.

If she’s going to the gym at odd hours, or going seven days a week when she used to go twice, she’s looking good for someone else.

I know you might think, "I'm the Top G, my girl's doing this for me!" She ain't doing it for you, bro.

This is exactly why women can move on so effortlessly after a breakup. They’ve been planning it in their heads for months. By the time they officially drop your ass, they already feel confident, and they're already sleeping with the other guy. Meanwhile, you're sitting on the couch crying because you "didn't see it coming."

3. Her Schedule Changes

When a woman starts cheating, she wants to stay away from you as long as possible.

She doesn't want to be around your presence anymore. So, she’ll take more hours at work. She’ll leave the house more often. She’ll come home late at night. She has a guilty conscience and avoidance is her best strategy.

She's keeping busy. She might also be working overtime or picking up holiday shifts because she knows a breakup is coming. She wants to make sure she has a financial Plan B so she can be completely independent away from you.

4. She Becomes Hostile and Argumentative

If you notice she is suddenly more argumentative and aggressive with you, there's a serious reason for it: she has another man chirping in her ear.

She’s being programmed by another guy. She’s ready to jump ship.

When a girl becomes hostile, she is begging for you to break up with her so she doesn't have to do it herself. She is begging for you to show her that you have a backbone—that you won't tolerate her disrespect and will just walk away.

Women do not respect weak men who are too scared to leave.

If you decide to stay with her and coddle her like a baby during these arguments, it's officially over. She knows you have no balls, and she will disrespect you even more. It might even escalate to her putting her hands on you.

Take the emotional needle out of your arm and walk the fuck away. Yes, it’s painful, but you can still salvage your pride if you are the one who ends it.

5. Emotional Disconnect

The arguments are just stage one. The second stage is the emotional disconnect.

Her emotions are no longer invested in the relationship. She has a blank stare every time you talk to her. She doesn’t pay attention to you. Her mind completely checks out.

If you try arguing with her and she doesn’t even engage anymore, that’s how you know she’s already made up her mind. She’s gone, and she's probably already cheating on you.

6. Posting Provocative Pictures (The Thirst Trap)

When a woman is cheating, or wants to leave you, she will start posting provocative pictures on social media. She’ll start showing her cleavage. She'll show her fleshy goodness.

It’s her way of letting the world know the house is officially up for sale.

If your girl has never posted sexy pictures before, and suddenly her Instagram looks like an explicit magazine, something is up. Players know exactly what to look for. When I see a girl doing this, I already know: come to daddy. It's only a matter of time before we link up.

She wants attention from other men. She's signaling that she's back on the market.

She might also start posting subliminal messages—song lyrics, inspirational quotes, or relationship videos. She's acting vulnerable to make sure other guys slide into her DMs.

7. She Pulls Back Completely

After posting the provocative pictures, she’s going to start pulling back all her attention from you.

She’ll stop responding to your text messages. She’ll start giving you one-word answers.

Because you failed as a man to end the relationship when the red flags started, she has NO choice but to pull completely away from you. She doesn’t even want to talk to you anymore at this point.

Bonus Sign: Physical Bruises and Hickeys

This one is obvious, but a lot of barnacles are completely blind to it.

If you notice random pressure point bruises on her thighs, her legs, or her arms—and you know damn well you didn't leave them there—some other guy is plowing her up.

Unless she’s a test dummy for Volvo, she shouldn't have random pressure bruises. If she has hickeys, and she tells you "it came from you, silly," and you actually believe her? You are a certified beta.

Your girl will always lie to you about where they came from. Don't even bother asking her. Just know who gave them to her: Bob the Builder. Another man.

FAQs

How do I know for sure if she's cheating?
If she suddenly stops having sex with you, picks constant arguments to create distance, and starts posting highly provocative pictures online, the odds are virtually 100%. Women mentally check out before they physically cheat. Once she's emotionally disconnected from you, she is already entertaining other options.

Should I confront her about the signs like bruises or schedule changes?
No. Your girl will always lie to you. If she has pressure point bruises on her thighs or hickeys, and you ask her about them, she will just give you a crazy excuse. Instead of arguing or demanding the truth, simply look at her actions. Her behavior is all the proof you need. Walk away.

Can I win her back after she cheats?
You never take back a woman that cheated on you. When another man conquers your woman, your relationship is permanently over. If you take her back, she loses all respect for you because she knows you have zero boundaries and can't attract anyone else. She will absolutely cheat on you again.

What To Do Next

If your girl is cheating on you, and you know another man conquered your woman, it is game over.

There is nothing you can do at that point except break up with her. The second another man conquers your woman, it's done.

Never take back a woman who cheated on you. If she let another man inside of her, her respect for you is permanently gone. If you take her back, she will absolutely do it again, because she knows you can't get any other woman.

I don't care if she was drunk in Las Vegas for her friend's bachelorette party. Stop listening to the bullshit excuses.

I would rather a woman respect me for having the balls to walk away than disrespect me for taking her back. A woman cannot love you if she doesn’t respect you.

Walk the fuck away, build your value, and never look back.

Ready to transform your dating game and make sure this never happens again? Get my full attraction course: Attraction: The Beautiful Language of Women.

See ya on the next one,

Czar